He needs a complete recalibration of who he is when the pressure hits the hardest.
Because the issue isn’t his effort.
It’s the invisible weight he's been carrying behind the performance.
If your son is putting in the work—first in the gym, last off the ice—and still can’t seem to break through that next level...
He may not be struggling physically.
He’s stuck in the overdrive of pressure, perfection, and internal expectations.
And no one’s showing him how to shift it.
This isn’t about toughness.
This is about identity.
Because dominant athletes aren’t built through discipline alone.
They’re created through internal alignment.
This method doesn’t just teach him how to think differently.
It recalibrates the version of him who’s doing the thinking.
This is the NeuroEnergetic Mastery Method.
A full spectrum shift in how he leads, performs, and shows up under pressure.
This isn't about high-performance hacks.
Or recycled mindset tips.
This is identity work that reprograms his nervous system and mindset from the inside out, so high performance becomes his natural state.
He trains hard. Competes harder. Wants it more than most.
But behind the stats and the stoicism, something’s off.
You can feel it—even if he doesn’t have the words for it.
He’s crushing himself with silent expectations. Even after a strong performance, it’s never good enough. The bar just keeps moving.
He flips between being dialed-in and checked out. One week he’s unstoppable. The next? He’s second-guessing every move, overthinking, or emotionally flatlined.
He won’t say he’s anxious—but he’s always “on.” He doesn’t rest. He resets through adrenaline, not calm. And it’s burning him out.
He pushes through everything—but absorbs more than he lets on. He might not lash out, but you can see the tension building under the surface.
He wants to be a leader—but doesn’t feel like one. He’s respected, sure. But when things go sideways, he doubts himself. The self-trust just isn’t fully there yet.
He’s emotionally reactive—and you have to walk on eggshells in conversations. Whether it’s a shift gone wrong or feedback he didn’t expect, it hits deeper than it should. He knows it, but doesn’t know how to stop it.
He’s playing like he has something to prove—not something to own. And that edge? That fire? It flickers, because it’s coming from pressure—not power.
If you’ve seen him grind, rise, collapse, repeat—you know:
This isn't just about effort.
This is about recalibrating how he processes pressure from the inside out.
His calm becomes unshakeable.
His leadership becomes natural.
His power becomes internal.
This is not another mindset course. It’s not just about routines, habits, or positivity. This is identity-level transformation designed for elite athletes navigating the pressure, social dynamics, toxic politics, and personal toll of high-level sport.
✅ Energetic & Nervous System Realignment
He’ll learn to reset his body in real time, shift out of overthinking loops, and stay sharp without spiraling when the heat is on.
✅ Identity Level Leadership Expansion
We don’t just “fix confidence.” We rebuild identity. He’ll expand his leadership capacity and lock into self-trust—so the game slows down and his impact sharpens.
✅ Custom Tools to Manage High Stakes Moments
From pre-game nerves to performance slumps, he’ll walk away with tools that bring him back to center—fast. This is about consistency under pressure.
✅ Support that Sees the Whole Human Potential
He’s not just an athlete. He’s a young man navigating performance, expectations, and his own evolution. We meet him there—with support that goes deeper than the stat sheet. He is a leader in the making.
As a former Queen’s University varsity hockey player and USports national bronze medalist, I understand high-level pressure.
And I know what it costs when your nervous system is on overdrive and your self-worth is tied to performance.
Now, as a NeuroEnergetic Mastery High Performance Coach and Doctor of Chiropractic, I’ve helped elite athletes around the world unlock their potential—not through more effort, but through alignment.
This isn’t surface-level coaching.
This is realignment at the frequency of Mastery.
"You changed my son's life."-Hockey Mom, Dresden, ON
"These coaching sessions are life changing."-Hockey Player, Ontario
"I don't second guess myself anymore. I trust myself a lot more. I have a lot more patience and poise. Everything has dramatically changed in a good way."
-Hockey Player Calgary AB
"I feel ready to go every shift."
-Hockey Player, Kingston, ON
"I've never done anything like this before. Before I can see that we were playing to not lose, now we are playing to win."
-IIHF, Team Switzerland
"You are an alchemist. What you are doing is truly magical. It really really really really works. I just want to express my gratitude for what you are doing. I’ve definitely noticed I just feel so much calmer."
-Mississauga, Ontario
"That clearing was insane!!!! I legit feel like I have my power back. You are the only person that has been able to shift me at this level"
-Perth Australia
Spots are limited.
Every application is reviewed personally to ensure alignment.
If accepted, we’ll invite you to book a Discovery Call and explore if this is the right fit for your son.
Right now, there are two ways to plug into this work:
Private 1:1 Coaching Every journey starts with the 3-Month NeuroEnergetic Mastery Intensive. This is the foundation—the deep identity, mindset, and nervous system recalibration that shifts his performance (and life) from the inside out. If continued support is needed after the initial 3 months, custom extensions may be available by invitation. There are options to add on additional weekly sessions. In the Discovery Conversation we will discuss what the best option will be based on your goals, your challenges and how quickly you would like to experience results.
Private Audio Membership for Parents For parents who want tools, insights, and mindset support behind the scenes, I offer a private, members-only audio space. This is where you’ll get direct access to powerful mindset shifts, nervous system regulation tools, and deeper understanding of what your child is moving through—all designed to help you support their transformation with confidence.
What kind of results can we expect?
Every athlete is unique—but the common thread? You’ll feel it.
• More emotional resilience under pressure.
• Quicker recovery from mistakes.
• Deeper confidence—not just in him sport, but in life
• A noticeable shift in how he carries himself on and off the ice. This isn’t just about playing better. It’s about becoming unshakable.
Can this be covered by health insurance?
No. This cannot be billed under Chiropractic Care or Therapy. Dr. Shelby does have payment options that you can discuss in your Discovery Conversation.
While my background is in elite-level hockey, the NeuroEnergetic Mastery Method transcends sport. If your son or daughter is an elite performer facing high-pressure environments, this work will meet their exactly where they are—and take them beyond it. I also coach parents.
This is not surface-level coaching. When your child steps into this experience, they will receive:
Weekly Private 1:1 Coaching Sessions (60 minutes) Deep recalibration work—identity, nervous system, and mindset realignment in real time.
Unlimited Support Between Sessions Access to Dr. Shelby via text and email for real-time shifts, questions, or recalibrations as challenges arise.
Weekly Accountability Check-Ins Gentle but precise nudges to keep him anchored in his growth, even when life gets loud.
High-Performance Workbook Custom tools, prompts, and recalibration exercises designed to deepen the work between sessions.
Parent Weekly Updates Every week, parents receive a high-level summary: what we covered, shifts we’re seeing, and where we’re focusing next—so you stay connected to the process without disrupting his growth space.
This high level of support creates an environment where true transformation isn't just possible—it’s inevitable.
There’s no set age limit. It’s never about a number—it’s about alignment. When you apply, we’ll have a conversation. If your son can answer my core questions —even if he's nervous—then I know he’s ready for this work. Because results aren’t created through age. They’re created through resonance, readiness, and the willingness to meet themself. If that spark is there, the transformation will be too.
That’s normal—and expected. The NeuroEnergetic Mastery Method is built to meet him exactly where he is, without pressure, pushing, or forcing. We will also make sure we are an aligned match to work together in the Discovery Conversation before taking any steps forward. When we do move forward and either your son or I decide that we are no longer a match to work together, you can request a refund for any unused sessions.
Before any investment is made, you’ll receive a full financial agreement outlining all terms clearly—so everything feels grounded, transparent, and aligned from the very beginning. This isn’t about locking anyone in. It’s about building a foundation of mutual respect, clarity, and trust—right from the start.
All coaching sessions are done via Zoom. Each session is built around what will create the most impact for your son right now. While I do have a core curriculum designed to shift identity, nervous system resilience, and leadership embodiment, I don't force a rigid structure. I meet him exactly where he is—and weave the teachings into whatever is the highest energetic and emotional priority that day. Some sessions may feel like deep recalibration work. Others may feel like tactical energetic upgrades. All of it is intentionally crafted to move her forward—based on who he’s becoming, not just what he’s doing. In this space, the curriculum serves the athlete—not the other way around.
Once your son is accepted into the program, we find a time that works for both of us. This isn’t a one-size-fits-all schedule. We collaborate to create a rhythm that supports his training, school, and recovery needs—without adding more pressure to his life. Consistency matters—but so does honoring his real-world demands. This work is built to integrate into her world, not overwhelm it.
The best time is now. This work isn’t an add-on. It’s the foundation. The NeuroEnergetic Mastery Method strengthens and magnifies every other investment you’ve made in his growth—training, camps, nutrition, the best equipment, skills development. Because when his identity, nervous system, and internal leadership are recalibrated? He doesn't just use those resources more effectively— he transforms because of them. These tools don't just impact this season of his life. They have the power to shift the entire trajectory of who he becomes—on the ice, and far beyond it.
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